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Interactive, virtual courses and hundreds of hours of on-demand trainings bring you what’s working in Real Estate and Lending TODAY. It’s all at your fingertips.


Scripts, Dialogues, Referral Networks, Letters, Emails, Social Posts, Postcards, Newsletters, Texts, Referral Platforms, CRM and so much more. All exclusive and unlimited to BRO members.


Ask Joe, the BRO Team and your fellow agents & lenders anything via the private members-only Facebook Group.


Members have all-access to our Fast-Pass Coaching and Accountability courses which will work to keep you focused and motivated to achieve your goals.

From 5% To 45% New Referrals In 30 Days

Right before I joined By Referral Only I spent $14,000 on advertising that didn’t yield a single lead. It was very frustrating and I knew that something had to change. Before By Referral Only I calculated that I was receiving 5% referrals in the During Unit. In a matter of 90 days of using the By Referral Only tools and systems, I went from 5% to 45%. Another 30 days later, I went from 45% to 55%. By Referral Only has skyrocketed my referral business.

 Scott Asbell, Mountain West Mortgage, Orem, Utah

What Do You Actually Get?

  • 7+ ESSENTIAL COMMUNICATION Referrals...on Auto-Pilot!

These 7+ Essential Communications have the power to bring you a steady flow of referral business, every month, for the rest of your career. Every month, we design and produce 7 brand new Referral Communications… and we’ll even send them to your clients and contacts for you! Your Referral System will run on autopilot so you can focus 100% on serving clients and closing sales. Learn more about the 7+ Essentials here.


Personalized referral-generating postcards, letters, posts, emails and client newsletters to keep you top-of-mind with all your clients and sphere of influence. All Done-For-You and Ready To Send!

  • SMART GUIDANCE FUNNEL Lead Capture & Automated Follow Up System For Prospects!

Nurture future prospects in a way that provides value & trust! Imagine meeting a prospect, you open the landing page on your computer, tablet or phone and ask them to submit their name and email so you can stay in touch. Now, a series of Smart Guidance emails are automatically sent to them providing expert tips designed to provide helpful notes and information to a prospect looking to buy, sell, or finance. They position you as an expert in your field, and keep you on top of mind with a weekly email. The strategic CTAs will encourage your prospect to reach out to you for advice. This is perfect to use at open houses or when someone sends you a referral, and it’s all ready, waiting and done-for-you with your By Referral Only membership.

  • GETTING MORE LISTINGS SYSTEM Automated 'set it and forget it: lead generation system to get you NEW leads in your local market.

This proven direct-response marketing program allows you to dominate an area of 1000 homes. You’ll get all the direct mail programs, newsletters scripts, and systems in a turnkey toolkit. It’s like a paint by numbers program that will produce a consistent flow of new business for you.


The 5 Star Referral Center is a state of the art website where all the businesses in your community that are worthy of being referred can quickly and easily be found on one elegant platform. Local businesses and service providers will LOVE sending you new referrals because you are in turn promoting them. Your clients and leads will love that they can come to your personalized 5 Star Referral Center website and find trusted businesses and service providers to help them and their friends and family. You can collect new leads right from your 5 Star site and the system can generate email communication to clients, leads and your referral partners. You get your own website and custom URL, all of the training, help with setup, marketing materials, support and guidance. If you want to be the most referred agent or lender in your area…THIS will get you there. This program alone is worth $1597. It’s all included with your membership!

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  • Member discount for live classes and website hosting.
  • MAGIC WORDS DOJO Learn how to overcome objections and stop losing business to mediocre agents & lenders

Magic Words Dojo (amazing scripts & dialogues), blogs, private Facebook group posts and live online classes every month – all recorded and downloadable, so you can take your audio trainings and interviews with you everywhere you go.


With your By Referral Only Membership, you get a significant discount for our best training & accountability programs at a with your membership. Courses like Referral Ignite, Six Significant Daily Habits & 5 Star Referral Center. These 8-week courses are offered throughout the year and give you the exact training, support, coaching and accountability you need to ensure that you not only master the art of referral strategy, but they also help you to become a better, more well-rounded agent or lender. With these courses you get LIVE training, private Facebook Group Access, valuable quick-start assignments, and support, as well as workbooks and tools you need to participate. Many of our members take these each and every year as they move their business from survival to stability, to success and significance.

  • Member discount on live classes (recording included).

Your path to becoming a Certified By Referral Only Consultant consists of Ten Courses, taught live by Joe and his amazing coach team. These 10 courses bring 30 years of experience to you in an easy-to-learn class environment. The By Referral Only System has been the #1 Referral System in Real Estate for 30

years. This is the exact system that our top agents use to turn every client into 1-3 additional clients. Succeeding in Real Estate is MUCH easier when you have the ability to turn every transaction into 1-3 additional transactions! Learn more about CBROC here.

  • MYCLIENTS REFERRAL MANAGEMENT SYSTEM Keep your database on track & organized!

Robust automated systems! Mail, email, track to-dos, manage your lists, know which relationships are creating referrals for you and calculate lifetime value, all fully integrated to work with all your strategies and programs; plus it syncs with popular mobile devices. This CRM does it all! A CRM of this level would cost you at least $150/month per user elsewhere, we make it part of our By Referral Only System so that you can run all of your communications, stats and reports seamlessly from one place.


Your own local or toll-free number, with unlimited extensions and prepaid minutes included. Features like call forwarding, text-to-join marketing and recorded messages to attract new clients quickly and track your results automatically.—All integrated into your MyClients CRM!


Unlimited Lead-generating Web pages with opt-in forms and automatic drip campaigns all preloaded for you.


By Referral Only Has Helped Me 10X My Business!

As a result of meeting Joe (and joining By Referral Only) I have 10x my business…increased my market share…all as a result of Joe’s coaching, systems, formulas, and relentless commitment to ensuring I am out of my own way and actually getting it done.

– Jesse Ibanez, The GreanHouse Group, San Diego, CA


A guided process that takes you by the hand and helps you be your own self-coach. Each morning we focus on one DirectionQuestion and go through a series of prompts so that you land on insight with an action plan to implement it. Attend live or access a comprehensive on-demand video library.


LIVE coaching every week plus LIVE coaching from our Inner Circle of the top Real Estate Agents and top Lenders in North America. Every week, you’ll see exactly what the most successful agents and lenders are doing to succeed in today’s market… Our highest paid agents and lenders say the Wisdom Wednesday Webinars are the #1 strategy that helped them BREAKTHROUGH to earning a high six-figure income, working less than 40 hours per week.


This is by far one of our members’ favorite new features. The Morning Joe Cafe is like caffeine for your fresh thinking. You pick your blend of message and each morning you’ll get a text with that day’s motivational message of the day. These are topics and areas that will expand, support and improve your life and your business. Members get unlimited free access to all existing seasons and any new seasons as they’re released..


Where you’ll get expert advice from Joe, Business Advisors and other By Referral Only members, and where no question goes unanswered.


By Referral Only members can send and receive client referrals throughout the entire membership community. One simple Facebook Group post can quickly equal new connections and new business anywhere in the US and Canada, plus you have peace of mind knowing you’re working with the best of the best agents and lenders in the business.


Friendly experts to help you whenever you need assistance.


"If you are not doing the BRO newsletter done for you, you’re missing out. Today my newsletter produced 3.5M in business. This client was at her doctors’ office (my client ) and mentioned they we thinking about buying in AZ for investment. She had my newsletter inches away and told her to call me. By the time we are finished in 6 months, they will have purchased almost 9M in homes from one newsletter with a .55cent stamp. The By Referral Only Newsletter is my #1 moneymaker!"

– Colleen Olson, Arizona Best Real Estate, Scottsdale, AZ

I received a call this morning from a lady who wants to sell her house. After speaking with her, I asked how she found me. She said, “I have been getting your emails for a while.” I went into the By Referral Only CRM and looked her up and guess what? She was a lead from the Smart Guidance Landing Page and Funnel that By Referral Only gave me and has been getting emails and videos…now I’m listing her home! Stay with it and be consistent….send out videos and include them in your By Referral Only FunDay Monday contest. Be patient. Not everyone is ready today, but if you continue to nurture them [with the tools from By Referral Only] and they will come! I’m a Happy BRO agent!

– Liza King, San Antonio, TX

I started real estate three years ago and implemented Joe’s strategies very early on. My first full year in real estate I closed 4 million, my second year I closed 6.5 million, and this year I’ll close to 10 million. I am confident without By Referral Only I would not have had the success I had. My business is 98% referral from my sphere of influence and past client referrals. I use the By Referral Only referral reminder postcards, newsletters and implement the follow-up conversations with text and email…all that By Referral Only provides and Joe teaches us. There is so much information at BRO it was like drinking through a firehose at first, but start one step at a time. There’s nothing else in this business that will benefit your success more than By Referral Only.

– Heather Durham, Front Porch Properties At Keller Williams Realty, Memphis, TN